There's a problem with Christmas.
I'm in the mall, killing time while Dorothy Christmas shops. I don't Christmas shop. I do the carrying. Just now I'm at the pharmacy where I buy a present for myself, the last package of Sensor Excel razor blades on the shelf so I don't have to throw away my favorite razor handle. Now I'm heading back to the shops to find Dorothy who is busy buying gifts for other people.
A lady missing most of her front teeth spies me, comes over and asks if I can help her because it's the end of the month and she's out of groceries. I say, "Of course" and give her a twenty.
A twenty. For groceries. Our last grocery bill was twenty times twenty! Not sure I gave her enough.
Continuing on my way to the shops, I am visited by three ghosts of beggars past. One of them got nothing from me. Another got a coffee. The third got enough to dunk a muffin in the coffee.
I know what you're thinking. By Christmas morning I'm going to have an epiphany and write the toothless lady a cheque for dentures. You're wrong. Dorothy writes the cheques. She might even go for dentures. She's Mrs Claus. Not sure of my part in this drama, maybe Ebenezer or Shrek.
I'm of two minds about giving because there isn't a law. Too much or too little won't put you in jail. However, there is a guideline: don't give away more than you've got. So far, so good.
Some music of the season comes to mind.
Here's the whole song:
Christmas is coming, the goose is getting fat
Please put a penny in the old man's hat
If you haven't got a penny, a ha'penny will do
If you haven't got a ha'penny, then God bless you!
You know the song. You also know that in spite of the warm feelings the song evokes, the goose, the penny and the ha'penny are out of fashion. I don't think I have ever dined on goose, haven't found any pennies lately, and I've never seen a ha'penny.
Yet we cherish the antique songs. Even when we have forgotten their origin, we find lasting meaning in them. God bless you, indeed.
God bless you. Really? Do we seriously imagine that those words, spoken or sung, however fervently, will alter anyone's situation for the better?
Well, yes and no, but yes.
Yes. Singing a goodwill song among friends is itself a blessing.
And no. The belief that God will bless us doesn't hold up amidst the injustice, hunger, disease, disaster, grief, and missing teeth experienced by many here and around the world in spite of earnest prayers.
But yes. If our God-thoughts move us to care for each other, we are all blessed.
Sometimes we imagine that believing the unbelievable is what faith demands of us. Abraham, Moses, Jesus and many prophets since have shown us otherwise. They questioned beyond the beliefs of their day to better understand the way things are. As for me, I believe that God is not offended by our questions.
Even our best understanding is not God.
God remains Mystery.
God as the Mystery-of-What-Is was new understanding attributed to Moses (according to legend). What-we-make-of-it is merely an imperfect representation of What-Is. If what-we-make-of-it distracts us from the Mystery-of-What-Is, that is idolatry, which is forbidden by the first commandment carved in stone (according to legend).
Ah, commandments. In spite of his transcendent insight into the Mystery of What-Is, Moses did a very human thing; he imagined God as Law-Giver and Judge, roles with which he was familiar (according to legend) as an adopted member of Pharaoh's family. The God-as-Law-Giver-and-Judge metaphor became a new idol, replacing ritual obeisance to a golden calf with submission to authority reinforced by threats of punishment if you disobey. Pharaoh had been using that trick very effectively to manage his slaves. Religion would make the Law profitable by requiring sacrifice as atonement for sin (according to legend). The law is still mis-used even today as a tool of religious extortion. At the time, three thousand years ago or more, it wasn't obvious that there was something wrong with that. Looking to the Mystery beyond the law (as Jesus did centuries later), we see that there was something wrong.
Long after Moses, a baby was born who would mature to see through the abuse of law revealing the law's true principle and purpose, helping willful people live together with mutual benefit. So law is many things; but if we keep questioning we find that God is certainly more than what-we-have-made-of-the-law.
There is a problem with Christmas.
There is no law for giving.
So what do you give to those who have
too much already
or everything they need
or not enough?
Will a ha'penny do?
No obvious answers here.
Look to the Mystery.